"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Advice on delaying/resisting women temporarily in general needed!

SoSuaveDude

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I'm 19 and start a two year nursing program this coming spring semester. I am excited and know that i will have to work my butt off, neglect friends and activities at times, but i hope it will pay off. The problem is, If you were in my position, where you aren't granted much time for personal activities, or friendships outside of clinicals, and studying, wouldn't you feel a bit isolated? I'm 19 and know that i can make it through this program, but i worry that i might be missing out. Some people say early twenties are the best years of your life so have fun! (but ofcourse others say they wished they focused on school too). Not trying to compare to my generation, but do you think i'm doing the right thing by temporarily disregarding females and acquiring a career lol?

Man i'm going to feel lonely throughout this two year curriculum lol... Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoSuaveDude

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Can any 25+ y/o's pitch in. don't hold back, any tips and outlooks are greatly appreciated.
 

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Your exactly where you should be, focusing on your career. The majority of your social circle will come from the other people in your program, they'll be going through the same thing you are. Enjoy the process. Even though your time will be tight its still good to incorporate some healthy practices for renewal. I'd recommend combining a healthy diet with these

Weight Training
Yoga
Pilates
Brazilian Jujitsu or other Martial art
 
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