"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice on delaying/resisting women temporarily in general needed!

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SoSuaveDude

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I'm 19 and start a two year nursing program this coming spring semester. I am excited and know that i will have to work my butt off, neglect friends and activities at times, but i hope it will pay off. The problem is, If you were in my position, where you aren't granted much time for personal activities, or friendships outside of clinicals, and studying, wouldn't you feel a bit isolated? I'm 19 and know that i can make it through this program, but i worry that i might be missing out. Some people say early twenties are the best years of your life so have fun! (but ofcourse others say they wished they focused on school too). Not trying to compare to my generation, but do you think i'm doing the right thing by temporarily disregarding females and acquiring a career lol?

Man i'm going to feel lonely throughout this two year curriculum lol... Any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can any 25+ y/o's pitch in. don't hold back, any tips and outlooks are greatly appreciated.
 
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Your exactly where you should be, focusing on your career. The majority of your social circle will come from the other people in your program, they'll be going through the same thing you are. Enjoy the process. Even though your time will be tight its still good to incorporate some healthy practices for renewal. I'd recommend combining a healthy diet with these

Weight Training
Yoga
Pilates
Brazilian Jujitsu or other Martial art
 
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