"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice on dating for a guy with low dating experience

BrightV

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I am 30+ and I dare to admit. I am out of the game for years (4). (do not comment on this... various reasons)
My questions will look stupid. But for me are normal.

I had the online person which I met and had a first date. (my previous post)
Before we met, due to her occupation, she was busy, but we talked a lot on the phone and messages (unfortunately), she liked it and she was already convinced to meet but also positive.

During the first date (which lasted 6hours). I also escalated a bit by touching and tickling etc.
No more than that... but it was warm.... she let no eyes of me, I escalated a bit but not to kiss for goodbye.

We reduced communication after the date, she was outside the country we leave, and had no much of connection (wifi/internet).
Today when she returned, she called after she had no roaming (through her car).

She is busy with 1 job, some changes in her life. Also some extra post Graduation ****...
and the date seems to be a long shot (about a week from now)

Guys what should I do? Communication ? Date arrangement?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BrightV

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How do you really tackle on the daily need (from her) for talking on the phone.

Should I become just busy?

She texts first in the morning. and whenever she is free.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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How do you really tackle on the daily need (from her) for talking on the phone.

Should I become just busy?

She texts first in the morning. and whenever she is free.
Dont always answer and return calls next day or later.
 
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