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Advice on dating for a guy with low dating experience

BrightV

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I am 30+ and I dare to admit. I am out of the game for years (4). (do not comment on this... various reasons)
My questions will look stupid. But for me are normal.

I had the online person which I met and had a first date. (my previous post)
Before we met, due to her occupation, she was busy, but we talked a lot on the phone and messages (unfortunately), she liked it and she was already convinced to meet but also positive.

During the first date (which lasted 6hours). I also escalated a bit by touching and tickling etc.
No more than that... but it was warm.... she let no eyes of me, I escalated a bit but not to kiss for goodbye.

We reduced communication after the date, she was outside the country we leave, and had no much of connection (wifi/internet).
Today when she returned, she called after she had no roaming (through her car).

She is busy with 1 job, some changes in her life. Also some extra post Graduation ****...
and the date seems to be a long shot (about a week from now)

Guys what should I do? Communication ? Date arrangement?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BrightV

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How do you really tackle on the daily need (from her) for talking on the phone.

Should I become just busy?

She texts first in the morning. and whenever she is free.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dustmuffin

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How do you really tackle on the daily need (from her) for talking on the phone.

Should I become just busy?

She texts first in the morning. and whenever she is free.
Dont always answer and return calls next day or later.
 
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