"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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advice on cold approaching in the street.

yrock181

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I need advice on what to say if you approach a girl and she give you the do i know you look or says it. This has happened to me 3 times in the past week and i want to find a way to conquer it.
I was thinking of saying if she were to ask me if do i know you, my response would be
me: No. But guess what,
her: if she were to say "what"
Me: this is your lucky chance to meet me.
do you think this is good and can you give me any suggestions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nighthawk

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If she says "do I know you?"

"No, you just wish you did. Hi anyway (kino), whats your name?"

"Sure, you still owe me $20 from that bar-bet." etc. Keep her on the defensive in a teasing way.

"I doubt it I don't know any girls."

"Are you selling something? You're not a jesus freak or something?" as before, put them on the funny defensive straight away.

"Are you stalking me?"

If she looks like 'do I know you'

"Do I know you or are you just checking me out?"

'What?'

'Hi'

'You have something in your hair'

'where did you get that hat/brooch/tattoo, I think its the one my friend was after'



Having said that I think street pick-ups are rarely worth the effort/flake-factor, but it's all fun.
 
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