"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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advice on cold approaching in the street.

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I need advice on what to say if you approach a girl and she give you the do i know you look or says it. This has happened to me 3 times in the past week and i want to find a way to conquer it.
I was thinking of saying if she were to ask me if do i know you, my response would be
me: No. But guess what,
her: if she were to say "what"
Me: this is your lucky chance to meet me.
do you think this is good and can you give me any suggestions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she says "do I know you?"

"No, you just wish you did. Hi anyway (kino), whats your name?"

"Sure, you still owe me $20 from that bar-bet." etc. Keep her on the defensive in a teasing way.

"I doubt it I don't know any girls."

"Are you selling something? You're not a jesus freak or something?" as before, put them on the funny defensive straight away.

"Are you stalking me?"

If she looks like 'do I know you'

"Do I know you or are you just checking me out?"

'What?'

'Hi'

'You have something in your hair'

'where did you get that hat/brooch/tattoo, I think its the one my friend was after'



Having said that I think street pick-ups are rarely worth the effort/flake-factor, but it's all fun.
 
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