"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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advice on cold approaching in the street.

yrock181

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I need advice on what to say if you approach a girl and she give you the do i know you look or says it. This has happened to me 3 times in the past week and i want to find a way to conquer it.
I was thinking of saying if she were to ask me if do i know you, my response would be
me: No. But guess what,
her: if she were to say "what"
Me: this is your lucky chance to meet me.
do you think this is good and can you give me any suggestions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If she says "do I know you?"

"No, you just wish you did. Hi anyway (kino), whats your name?"

"Sure, you still owe me $20 from that bar-bet." etc. Keep her on the defensive in a teasing way.

"I doubt it I don't know any girls."

"Are you selling something? You're not a jesus freak or something?" as before, put them on the funny defensive straight away.

"Are you stalking me?"

If she looks like 'do I know you'

"Do I know you or are you just checking me out?"

'What?'

'Hi'

'You have something in your hair'

'where did you get that hat/brooch/tattoo, I think its the one my friend was after'



Having said that I think street pick-ups are rarely worth the effort/flake-factor, but it's all fun.
 
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