"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Could I have help with my last question, please? Right now I have a sense that I shouldn't pursue this any further. I was thinking to myself earlier of how it started, she started smiling at me and we began to have conversations, at first I didn't think it was anything, she was just being friendly. From then on, she would always make eye contact with me and smile (ask me how I was). Man......am I stupid or what, I waited too long. Now I am just reviewing to myself of all the missed opportunities, and, I didn't do anything. So I am just saying to myself "What an idiot" :rolleyes:. Judging from her body language and attitude (yesterday when I saw her at class) it looks like she lost interest in me, little or no eye contact, no smile, she didn't talk to me. I'm sort of upset that I didn't capitalize on this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BTW: is it too late to use kino??? :confused:
 
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So, if I ask her out and she says 'NO', should I just say "okay then" with a smile and walk away??? Another thing which is bothering me is I see her for most of the week (in classes) so it would make it pretty awkward. What should I do, help please?
 
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Could I get some assistance please?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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YO! Listen dude do what I told you to do previously...
Dont listen to anyone else's stuff, it seems you getting confused. Do what I said.
 
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Six months to show your interest?? Huh??? This is your problem - makes you look weak!! Show romantic interest in a girl in the first few weeks of meeting her - if she is not reciprocating interest then move on!!

What you should do now is ask her out and if she turns you down after knowing you for so long then she is not interested - plain and simple!!
 
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