"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Could I have help with my last question, please? Right now I have a sense that I shouldn't pursue this any further. I was thinking to myself earlier of how it started, she started smiling at me and we began to have conversations, at first I didn't think it was anything, she was just being friendly. From then on, she would always make eye contact with me and smile (ask me how I was). Man......am I stupid or what, I waited too long. Now I am just reviewing to myself of all the missed opportunities, and, I didn't do anything. So I am just saying to myself "What an idiot" :rolleyes:. Judging from her body language and attitude (yesterday when I saw her at class) it looks like she lost interest in me, little or no eye contact, no smile, she didn't talk to me. I'm sort of upset that I didn't capitalize on this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BTW: is it too late to use kino??? :confused:
 
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So, if I ask her out and she says 'NO', should I just say "okay then" with a smile and walk away??? Another thing which is bothering me is I see her for most of the week (in classes) so it would make it pretty awkward. What should I do, help please?
 
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Could I get some assistance please?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YO! Listen dude do what I told you to do previously...
Dont listen to anyone else's stuff, it seems you getting confused. Do what I said.
 
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Six months to show your interest?? Huh??? This is your problem - makes you look weak!! Show romantic interest in a girl in the first few weeks of meeting her - if she is not reciprocating interest then move on!!

What you should do now is ask her out and if she turns you down after knowing you for so long then she is not interested - plain and simple!!
 
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