"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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advice on a certain relationship (college)

WC2

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i'm going to try and keep this short. anyways, i'm 19 in college and i'm a pretty good looking guy. i've had my share of girlfriends, but i never really got around to perfecting my game.

anyways, a few months ago i found what i thought was the girl of my dreams. ofcourse she was beautiful so she had a lot of dating experience and knew "the game" pretty well. being the type i was, i came on real hard and got real mad and pissed off whenever she let me down (even if it was small). we got real close and kissed on many occassions, but towards the last few weeks i felt us moving more into the friendzone as i wasn't really ontop of my flirting and found myself talking with her about everyday things, as opposed to spicing it up with some romance.

here comes the turning point; i started reading up on techniques here on sosuave, and i pinpointed many of my mistakes and i feel like a new man. it's been 3 weeks since me and this girl have kissed, but i've been laying other girls like it's my job. i basically stopped talking to her unless i see her in person, but now i think i can piece things back together and sweep her off her feet. is it possible to reverse a relationship like this, and show her the new me, without her knowing that its the "new" me?

thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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biker_gixxer

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If you are laying other girls, is there any reason why you still want to bother wth her?
 

blinkwatt

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Yes it is possible to reverse it,but its going to be harder then if you did it when you just met her. She has to leave you ONE opening to go out on a date and you should work your magic from there. Dont call her often,tease her,bust her balls you know what to do now that you joined this board.
 
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