"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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advice on a certain relationship (college)

WC2

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i'm going to try and keep this short. anyways, i'm 19 in college and i'm a pretty good looking guy. i've had my share of girlfriends, but i never really got around to perfecting my game.

anyways, a few months ago i found what i thought was the girl of my dreams. ofcourse she was beautiful so she had a lot of dating experience and knew "the game" pretty well. being the type i was, i came on real hard and got real mad and pissed off whenever she let me down (even if it was small). we got real close and kissed on many occassions, but towards the last few weeks i felt us moving more into the friendzone as i wasn't really ontop of my flirting and found myself talking with her about everyday things, as opposed to spicing it up with some romance.

here comes the turning point; i started reading up on techniques here on sosuave, and i pinpointed many of my mistakes and i feel like a new man. it's been 3 weeks since me and this girl have kissed, but i've been laying other girls like it's my job. i basically stopped talking to her unless i see her in person, but now i think i can piece things back together and sweep her off her feet. is it possible to reverse a relationship like this, and show her the new me, without her knowing that its the "new" me?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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biker_gixxer

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If you are laying other girls, is there any reason why you still want to bother wth her?
 

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Yes it is possible to reverse it,but its going to be harder then if you did it when you just met her. She has to leave you ONE opening to go out on a date and you should work your magic from there. Dont call her often,tease her,bust her balls you know what to do now that you joined this board.
 
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