"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Martin001

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Hi,
I have been seeing this girl for a few weeks and I am looking to get her back to my pad. She's really into me even though I only ever contact her when I want to see her. Last time I saw her, we were making out in the club and she was all over me, rubbing my d*ck and everything. At the end of the night I asked her if she wanted to come back to my flat, but she said no and went her own way. I'm guessing she wants to hold out on me for as long as possible just to keep me interested. but does anyone have any good tips to get her back to my place sooner rather than later?

Cheers

Martin
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women usually seem to need official dating status before they'll go somewhere that could be related to anything sexual (ie your place). Take her out on a real date (not to a bar) before you try inviting her over. Make your second date a movie night at your place.
 
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You never ask a woman if she wants to go over to your place.

You are essentially putting her notice and asking her " Do you want to be my slvt tonight"?? As a man you must take that burden off her hands and make the decision regarding that (Never ask a woman, observe her and take actions accordnigly).

I suggest next time start your date at your pad that she will see where you live and she will start feeling comfertable there, then you take her out somewhere and end the date there. By not using your place as the end all be all for the purpose of sex, she will be much more comfertable there and thus will be more agreeable to spend her time there without added pressure.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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