Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Advice needed!

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Martin001

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Hi,
I have been seeing this girl for a few weeks and I am looking to get her back to my pad. She's really into me even though I only ever contact her when I want to see her. Last time I saw her, we were making out in the club and she was all over me, rubbing my d*ck and everything. At the end of the night I asked her if she wanted to come back to my flat, but she said no and went her own way. I'm guessing she wants to hold out on me for as long as possible just to keep me interested. but does anyone have any good tips to get her back to my place sooner rather than later?

Cheers

Martin
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women usually seem to need official dating status before they'll go somewhere that could be related to anything sexual (ie your place). Take her out on a real date (not to a bar) before you try inviting her over. Make your second date a movie night at your place.
 
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You never ask a woman if she wants to go over to your place.

You are essentially putting her notice and asking her " Do you want to be my slvt tonight"?? As a man you must take that burden off her hands and make the decision regarding that (Never ask a woman, observe her and take actions accordnigly).

I suggest next time start your date at your pad that she will see where you live and she will start feeling comfertable there, then you take her out somewhere and end the date there. By not using your place as the end all be all for the purpose of sex, she will be much more comfertable there and thus will be more agreeable to spend her time there without added pressure.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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