"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice Needed

Strong325

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I meet this girl, and we've hooked up before. I know she has a crush on and I know she wants to go out with me, but I am not sure if I am ready to start another relationship. She's really nice and we share a lot in common, but, she's not as beautiful as I expected a girl to be. Don't get me wrong she is pretty to a point.

My problem is what should I do, should I go out with her? I don't want to rush anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gav

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what do YOU want?

if you want to go out with her, go out with her. but if you don't want a relationship, at least for the moment, tell her that.
 

Jerky Boi

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I'd say just go for it. She's interested in you, so what's stopping you? Try things out, and if things don't work out quite as well as you wanted them to, move on.

By the way, are her looks the only thing that's stopping you?
 

Guitarfreakelite

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look you may not get this oportunity again, from what you tell me she sounds alright, like an alright girl. shes not going to wait around 4 you her entire life, if she gets the feeling you dont like her back and shes smart she'll stop liking you and move on.. if you dont like her in that way, tell her straight up,.. or if your not looking for a long turm relation ship but just a short turm one tell her that straight up.. its your choise, my opinion is that you should go for it, maybe something could happen, you never know if you dont try..
 
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