"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i met this girl through a friend about 3 months ago. we talked a few time but never hung out. at graduation, i got her number and didn't go far as asking her out right on the spot. after graduation, we hugged and said our good bye.

i don't really know this girl but would like to ask her out on a date. i want to call her up and tell her to hang out. how can i go about this? what do i say?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay, first of all, we're going to need some more information here. Is she hb8 or better?? This may all be wasted time that you could spend PUAing out on the town. Anyway, I believe it was a major mistake to not have asked her out immediately. Did she seem interested when she gave you the number? If so, definitely call her and just go with the flow. Hell, even if she didn't seem interested, call her anyway. If she doesn't pick up leave a short message, saying who you are, and ask her to call you back. Then forget about it. Balls out of your court. Take care and good luck. :up:
 
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the hard part is over with for you... you already know her and got her number. does she have a bf? if she does then forget it, if she doesnt then it should be simple, ask her if she wants to hang out... its that simple if she's single. just take her out to a coffee, its the best place for you guys to just chill and get to know each other, just have a good conversation... if you're not comfortable calling her, then text her... but dont overdue the texting... good luck bro.
 
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