"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dude04

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i met this girl through a friend about 3 months ago. we talked a few time but never hung out. at graduation, i got her number and didn't go far as asking her out right on the spot. after graduation, we hugged and said our good bye.

i don't really know this girl but would like to ask her out on a date. i want to call her up and tell her to hang out. how can i go about this? what do i say?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Subliminal

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Okay, first of all, we're going to need some more information here. Is she hb8 or better?? This may all be wasted time that you could spend PUAing out on the town. Anyway, I believe it was a major mistake to not have asked her out immediately. Did she seem interested when she gave you the number? If so, definitely call her and just go with the flow. Hell, even if she didn't seem interested, call her anyway. If she doesn't pick up leave a short message, saying who you are, and ask her to call you back. Then forget about it. Balls out of your court. Take care and good luck. :up:
 

yama600rr

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the hard part is over with for you... you already know her and got her number. does she have a bf? if she does then forget it, if she doesnt then it should be simple, ask her if she wants to hang out... its that simple if she's single. just take her out to a coffee, its the best place for you guys to just chill and get to know each other, just have a good conversation... if you're not comfortable calling her, then text her... but dont overdue the texting... good luck bro.
 
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