"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i met this girl through a friend about 3 months ago. we talked a few time but never hung out. at graduation, i got her number and didn't go far as asking her out right on the spot. after graduation, we hugged and said our good bye.

i don't really know this girl but would like to ask her out on a date. i want to call her up and tell her to hang out. how can i go about this? what do i say?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay, first of all, we're going to need some more information here. Is she hb8 or better?? This may all be wasted time that you could spend PUAing out on the town. Anyway, I believe it was a major mistake to not have asked her out immediately. Did she seem interested when she gave you the number? If so, definitely call her and just go with the flow. Hell, even if she didn't seem interested, call her anyway. If she doesn't pick up leave a short message, saying who you are, and ask her to call you back. Then forget about it. Balls out of your court. Take care and good luck. :up:
 
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the hard part is over with for you... you already know her and got her number. does she have a bf? if she does then forget it, if she doesnt then it should be simple, ask her if she wants to hang out... its that simple if she's single. just take her out to a coffee, its the best place for you guys to just chill and get to know each other, just have a good conversation... if you're not comfortable calling her, then text her... but dont overdue the texting... good luck bro.
 
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