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Hi im 18 just finished college (from uk), ok i go to the gym 3x week usually 2x per week there is this girl there that i find attractive, we usually have a conversation but sometimes in the past she has tended to ignore me (probably as i havent approached her?) but more recently she has tended to approach me and start a conversation and just generally showed more interest although she has been at the same gym for a while so contact is regular.

Conversation is generally good and more personal then general, the only time i do see her is at the gym but she seems this friendly to other guys so may just be a general thing and not being attracted, my question is should i and how to take this further? :confused:
 

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Ask her if she fancies going to pub for a drink after the workout.
 

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number close may work - not sure about the pub though..

how about offering her a lift home 1 day (if i leave about the same time as her), then as she goes offer to go out sometime during the week??
 
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