"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi im 18 just finished college (from uk), ok i go to the gym 3x week usually 2x per week there is this girl there that i find attractive, we usually have a conversation but sometimes in the past she has tended to ignore me (probably as i havent approached her?) but more recently she has tended to approach me and start a conversation and just generally showed more interest although she has been at the same gym for a while so contact is regular.

Conversation is generally good and more personal then general, the only time i do see her is at the gym but she seems this friendly to other guys so may just be a general thing and not being attracted, my question is should i and how to take this further? :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ask her if she fancies going to pub for a drink after the workout.
 

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number close may work - not sure about the pub though..

how about offering her a lift home 1 day (if i leave about the same time as her), then as she goes offer to go out sometime during the week??
 
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