"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice Needed , what should I do for the next three years ?

BigFoot04

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If this isn't the place then just remove it , cheers .

I'm 17 currently In college ( England ) and doing engineering as a backup option because I want to go into the Military.

However I need braces and probably won't get them until I'm 18 , for the treatment I need it says maximum of 3 years.

I was planning to go in straight after college but that won't be the case now , what should I do for the three possible years after college as uni debts don't looks nice for what I wanna do?

Thanks In advance.

If it helps I could afford to go private , my family haven't got alot but I've been working my arse off saving up for my future and could afford it , is it worth it for cutting down the time ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kotaix

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Not sure how things work in the UK.

If you were in the US I would say def go into the military for the GI bill so you could get a free education out of it. Otherwise I don't think paying for university is worthwhile in this day and age.

Engineering is one of the few courses of study that is actually worth paying for, so you're doing that much right.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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When in doubt, go to work. So I suppose the question is what work can you do now that will net you the most optimized skills.
 
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