you were doing great but when she came back all flirty you caved and had sex with her and probably said some stuff as well. This was probably just her ego seeing if she could get you one more time...not to worry I think you have done really well. A lot of guys in your situation see it as the end of the world. the fact that you have got up off the canvas and started seeing other women is great. Next time no marriage proposal except if it is from her and only after 2 years...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Picture a rock in your head. OR find one outside and stare at it. Is it round? Letting everything roll over it, to be washed away from the rock. Is it pointy? Better to defend against others. Heavy? Unmovable, sturdy in its convictions to stay where it is. Light? Agile, nimble, ready to move to the best advantage. Large, small? Red, Blue, Black, Purple? There are many rocks. About the only thing they have in common is they're hard.
Be the rock.
Be the rock.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
ronniel said:
The fact that you even ask this question is a victory for her.
Stop caring about what this crazy b*tch says and what she thinks.
Hit the gym, make some money, date some hot chicks, and she'll hate you even more. Just keep moving forward.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You're doing her a favor by giving her her mail while she's talking 5hit about you. Either throw the mail in the garbage or mark it "Return to Sender". The bytch should've got her address changed by now.ronniel said:
And let her talk all the 5hit she wants about you. Obsessing about you will be her downfall. However, YOU need to quit obsessing about what she's doing and move on with your life.
Another update.
Well, the truth is finally out there. She had another guy lined up, BEFORE leaving our common living space. This came from a pretty close friend of hers, that could not keep her mouth shut and confessed it to a person that i happen to know.
So, i' ve been played guys. Majorly.
**** this ****. I feel pretty angry right now.
What a c#nt she is.
Well, the truth is finally out there. She had another guy lined up, BEFORE leaving our common living space. This came from a pretty close friend of hers, that could not keep her mouth shut and confessed it to a person that i happen to know.
So, i' ve been played guys. Majorly.
**** this ****. I feel pretty angry right now.
What a c#nt she is.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Effective medicine is usually pretty bitter.
Ok, i'm pretty much on track. Hitting the gym 4 times a week and i have a new job offer that i may accept that will boost my revenue quite a bit.
I have currently 2 women interested in me, i already sexed the one. The other is more beautiful but seems to want to be chased quite a bit.
As far as the ex goes... she keeps talking **** about me to common friends and acquaintances. I really am offended and want to go on the defensive, but i choose to brush everything off.
I guess this is the right thing to do, isnt it?
I have currently 2 women interested in me, i already sexed the one. The other is more beautiful but seems to want to be chased quite a bit.
As far as the ex goes... she keeps talking **** about me to common friends and acquaintances. I really am offended and want to go on the defensive, but i choose to brush everything off.
I guess this is the right thing to do, isnt it?
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Yes. Quit posting about this b1tch. It's finished.ronniel said: