you were doing great but when she came back all flirty you caved and had sex with her and probably said some stuff as well. This was probably just her ego seeing if she could get you one more time...not to worry I think you have done really well. A lot of guys in your situation see it as the end of the world. the fact that you have got up off the canvas and started seeing other women is great. Next time no marriage proposal except if it is from her and only after 2 years...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Picture a rock in your head. OR find one outside and stare at it. Is it round? Letting everything roll over it, to be washed away from the rock. Is it pointy? Better to defend against others. Heavy? Unmovable, sturdy in its convictions to stay where it is. Light? Agile, nimble, ready to move to the best advantage. Large, small? Red, Blue, Black, Purple? There are many rocks. About the only thing they have in common is they're hard.
Be the rock.
Be the rock.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
ronniel said:
The fact that you even ask this question is a victory for her.
Stop caring about what this crazy b*tch says and what she thinks.
Hit the gym, make some money, date some hot chicks, and she'll hate you even more. Just keep moving forward.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You're doing her a favor by giving her her mail while she's talking 5hit about you. Either throw the mail in the garbage or mark it "Return to Sender". The bytch should've got her address changed by now.ronniel said:
And let her talk all the 5hit she wants about you. Obsessing about you will be her downfall. However, YOU need to quit obsessing about what she's doing and move on with your life.
Another update.
Well, the truth is finally out there. She had another guy lined up, BEFORE leaving our common living space. This came from a pretty close friend of hers, that could not keep her mouth shut and confessed it to a person that i happen to know.
So, i' ve been played guys. Majorly.
**** this ****. I feel pretty angry right now.
What a c#nt she is.
Well, the truth is finally out there. She had another guy lined up, BEFORE leaving our common living space. This came from a pretty close friend of hers, that could not keep her mouth shut and confessed it to a person that i happen to know.
So, i' ve been played guys. Majorly.
**** this ****. I feel pretty angry right now.
What a c#nt she is.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Effective medicine is usually pretty bitter.
Ok, i'm pretty much on track. Hitting the gym 4 times a week and i have a new job offer that i may accept that will boost my revenue quite a bit.
I have currently 2 women interested in me, i already sexed the one. The other is more beautiful but seems to want to be chased quite a bit.
As far as the ex goes... she keeps talking **** about me to common friends and acquaintances. I really am offended and want to go on the defensive, but i choose to brush everything off.
I guess this is the right thing to do, isnt it?
I have currently 2 women interested in me, i already sexed the one. The other is more beautiful but seems to want to be chased quite a bit.
As far as the ex goes... she keeps talking **** about me to common friends and acquaintances. I really am offended and want to go on the defensive, but i choose to brush everything off.
I guess this is the right thing to do, isnt it?
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Yes. Quit posting about this b1tch. It's finished.ronniel said: