ok so say its the first date..... everything is going well, she is attracted to you, yall are bowling or whatever,,,... i just read that its the surprise kisses that make the butterflies go in teh girls stomache,,,, however, does that just mean yall are chillin at the arcade and you start kissin her, i mean i know you also dont want to surprise her too much- and then the drive home is awkward and too predictable- what do you guys think
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
advice needed on WHEN to kiss the girl on date
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Set up a cozy environment. Kissing entails cuddling. Just get comfortable, get close, and go for it. If you really are that desperate, try searching up some posts on transitioning into a kiss-close. In any case, kissing should only be a matter of a few inches. Don't believe that surprise kisses bull. Just do it when it feels right.
Cliche moments are the ones you should use to your advantage! In the car, at the door, etc.
-Damian
Cliche moments are the ones you should use to your advantage! In the car, at the door, etc.
-Damian
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
kino throughout the date, then kiss at the end. It works everytime.
Here is what I have used to kiss every girl I have taken on a date recently.
You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.
This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:
me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...
Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.
Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.
me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?
I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!
me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.
she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.
me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?
her: ha ha ha ha ha
so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!
this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.
95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.
The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!
This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!
You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.
This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:
me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...
Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.
Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.
me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?
I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!
me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.
she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.
me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?
her: ha ha ha ha ha
so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!
this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.
95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.
The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!
This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tried and tested here too.wheelin&dealin said:
Leaving it till the end of the date is good in my experience, because it means you can relax and enjoy the date without stressing about the right time to make a move. You can also decide whether to kiss her based on how well the date went and how she responded to you. If she responds well to you touching her, she's probably going to respond well to you kissing her.
Just remember, girls who want to be kissed will make it easy for you. If she rushes to say goodbye at the end of the date and keeps her distance, forget it. If she lingers around, looks at you and stands her ground when you go near her, then go for it!