ok so say its the first date..... everything is going well, she is attracted to you, yall are bowling or whatever,,,... i just read that its the surprise kisses that make the butterflies go in teh girls stomache,,,, however, does that just mean yall are chillin at the arcade and you start kissin her, i mean i know you also dont want to surprise her too much- and then the drive home is awkward and too predictable- what do you guys think
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
advice needed on WHEN to kiss the girl on date
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Set up a cozy environment. Kissing entails cuddling. Just get comfortable, get close, and go for it. If you really are that desperate, try searching up some posts on transitioning into a kiss-close. In any case, kissing should only be a matter of a few inches. Don't believe that surprise kisses bull. Just do it when it feels right.
Cliche moments are the ones you should use to your advantage! In the car, at the door, etc.
-Damian
Cliche moments are the ones you should use to your advantage! In the car, at the door, etc.
-Damian
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
kino throughout the date, then kiss at the end. It works everytime.
Here is what I have used to kiss every girl I have taken on a date recently.
You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.
This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:
me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...
Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.
Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.
me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?
I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!
me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.
she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.
me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?
her: ha ha ha ha ha
so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!
this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.
95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.
The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!
This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!
You gotta do the obvious stuff, lots of kino, eye contact, smiling, really listening to her, connecting with her. Once you have done the above, you change phase and go for the kill.
This is what I do and it hasnt failed me yet:
me: hey! what perfume are you wearing? oh actually dont tell me let me guess...
Then lean in, move her hair aside with a gently brush of your hand against her neck. move your hand to the back of her neck, and as your nose gets within half an inch of her neck, grab her hair from behind. Almost like you are massaging the back of her neck. This will REALLY get her heart rate going.
Then lean back as if you are not at all affected by what just happened and the only reason you did that was to smell her.
me: mmmm not sure. is it x? y? z?
I've done this so many times that I pretty much always guess right now! they love this!
me: smell me! lets see if you can guess mine.
she leans in, smells you. this will turn her on even more.
me: hey, you know, your prefume actually tastes amazing too, have you ever tasted it?
her: ha ha ha ha ha
so i lean over again, and this time i dont even bother to wait for her to give me concent. by this time, she wants more!
this time i do exactly the same thing as before, but instead of just smelling her, i give her a very soft and gentle kiss on her neck with just the right amount of toungue.
95% of the time, you just work your way up to her lips.
The best part is when you feel them get goos-bumps as you kiss their neck!
This is my ultimate kiss close routine. It hasnt failed me yet!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tried and tested here too.wheelin&dealin said:
Leaving it till the end of the date is good in my experience, because it means you can relax and enjoy the date without stressing about the right time to make a move. You can also decide whether to kiss her based on how well the date went and how she responded to you. If she responds well to you touching her, she's probably going to respond well to you kissing her.
Just remember, girls who want to be kissed will make it easy for you. If she rushes to say goodbye at the end of the date and keeps her distance, forget it. If she lingers around, looks at you and stands her ground when you go near her, then go for it!