"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice needed on Model Chick

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SilkiSmooth

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Picked up a pretty hot model (used to work at Elite)... probably a 8.5 to 9.0. We met up for a quick dinner last week and have talked a couple times on the phone as we have both been busy. However, she just called me to grab dinner last minute and just told her I had other plans but can meet up for drinks later because she always tends to call me last minute and wants me to buy her dinner. As such, I decided to neg her offer but trying to get the table turned. Wanted to get your thoughts on how to set her straght and to take control of the situation. Any advice, senior DJs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get control of this situation right away. Propose activities that do not involve paying for anything (walk in the park, hang out at your place, etc.) and use them as a litmus test to see if you are a meal ticket or not.

If she is openly asking for you to buy things for her, this is a bad sign. You need to move away from formal dating pronto.

If she is game for some free or very low cost activities, you are fine. If she flakes on those and continues this dinner ***** pattern, its time to next her unless you want to be dragged along like so many chodes in her past.
 
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Ya gold digger comes to mind here. Is she broke?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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