"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice needed on Model Chick

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SilkiSmooth

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Picked up a pretty hot model (used to work at Elite)... probably a 8.5 to 9.0. We met up for a quick dinner last week and have talked a couple times on the phone as we have both been busy. However, she just called me to grab dinner last minute and just told her I had other plans but can meet up for drinks later because she always tends to call me last minute and wants me to buy her dinner. As such, I decided to neg her offer but trying to get the table turned. Wanted to get your thoughts on how to set her straght and to take control of the situation. Any advice, senior DJs?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Get control of this situation right away. Propose activities that do not involve paying for anything (walk in the park, hang out at your place, etc.) and use them as a litmus test to see if you are a meal ticket or not.

If she is openly asking for you to buy things for her, this is a bad sign. You need to move away from formal dating pronto.

If she is game for some free or very low cost activities, you are fine. If she flakes on those and continues this dinner ***** pattern, its time to next her unless you want to be dragged along like so many chodes in her past.
 
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Ya gold digger comes to mind here. Is she broke?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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