just another newb??
Don Juan
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When i first found this site I started to force eye contact with everyone on the street. At first i must have been a total creep but soon i found out that almost all people cannot hold eyecontact and tend to look right away when they have caught your glance.
I always used to look children with love strait in the eyes... and they always smiled back at me (there could be a lesson in disguise in this but i havent discovered it yet)
About half a year ago I noticed that I was no longer forcing eyecontact...it had all become natural for me. It became just a process I do constantly without thinking, such as walking to school
With growth I realized that by eyecontact you start to claim your territory on the street and look all the other males strait in the eye. It is a process I cannot control and it just happens...and 99% of them look strait away.
another realization was that I was avoiding too young girls and ugly ones on purpose. Like I am afraid of them getting the wrong message and trying to pick me up...
yet another one was that it still feels strange to lock eye contact with a woman from distance when she is walking towards you.
YOu catch her gaze..she looks away..then back at you..away again.
I dont know but it just seems creepy staring at her like this.
And with the absolutely gorgeus ones...when one of them tends to hold prolonged eye contact with me till she has passed me by on the street I sometimes get so selfconcious. I start to look where I step, looking that i wouldnt take too long or short steps etc...
I wonder if I can grow enough to completely shut these states off.
Anyone who feels he has been there or can share some advice is welcomed.
I always used to look children with love strait in the eyes... and they always smiled back at me (there could be a lesson in disguise in this but i havent discovered it yet)
About half a year ago I noticed that I was no longer forcing eyecontact...it had all become natural for me. It became just a process I do constantly without thinking, such as walking to school
With growth I realized that by eyecontact you start to claim your territory on the street and look all the other males strait in the eye. It is a process I cannot control and it just happens...and 99% of them look strait away.
another realization was that I was avoiding too young girls and ugly ones on purpose. Like I am afraid of them getting the wrong message and trying to pick me up...
yet another one was that it still feels strange to lock eye contact with a woman from distance when she is walking towards you.
YOu catch her gaze..she looks away..then back at you..away again.
I dont know but it just seems creepy staring at her like this.
And with the absolutely gorgeus ones...when one of them tends to hold prolonged eye contact with me till she has passed me by on the street I sometimes get so selfconcious. I start to look where I step, looking that i wouldnt take too long or short steps etc...
I wonder if I can grow enough to completely shut these states off.
Anyone who feels he has been there or can share some advice is welcomed.