"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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What's up DJ'z? I have a problem. Where there's this female I like and I think she like me. I think she like me because one time we was chilling together and i smacked her ass and she smacked my back or i would lay my hand on her ass and she did the same. Yesterday she call me and ask did I want to go to the taste of Chicago, I told her yeah. I asked her who was all going and she said just me, her, her sister , her sister boy friend and her sister baby. Is there anyway i can spit game to her, to holla at her and be kicks with her? Does it seem like she have interest in me? How should I go about asking her things? Thanks for the advice. Later.

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i probably wouldnt spit game. with family there and all its a touchy situation. if it was me id just be likeable and all. with fam there u wont be gettin any. just get her ready for the next date. maybe then u can get some alone time ;).
 

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Hey sister is cool and her sister boyfriend, we might just go our own seperate ways so me and her walk around by our selfs. how would I then go about talking to her?
 

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Originally posted by sitnam
i probably wouldnt spit game. with family there and all its a touchy situation. if it was me id just be likeable and all. with fam there u wont be gettin any. just get her ready for the next date. maybe then u can get some alone time ;).
No offense, but thats some of the worst advice i've ever heard. I think i'm gonna cry.

Well lets see, she invited you to spend a day together, major points there. No parents, even better. Sister who is most likely cool. You got everything going for you.

Just spend some time with her, drop neg hits, do kino, just have fun with it. Also make conversations with her sister/boyfriend, don't ignore them and your good as gold. Just talk to her whenever you feel like it, unless her sister is a crazy b*tch, she won't care if your dropping neg hits and hitting on her. Just don't try to f*ck her the first date lol.

People here feel that if the girl is with parents your screwed and that is far from true. The parents will be used to people hitting on the girl so its not like its gonna be a huge shock. Just be mature about it, and include them some in the conversation.

Plus read the bible for other questions :D
 

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Ok thanks, anymore tips, why things to say to start off? I'm think of just walking around with her, flirt, feel on her see if i get the same reaction i did last time i did or better, and move on from there, is that good?
 

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I think she like me because one time we was chilling together and i smacked her ass and she smacked my back or i would lay my hand on her ass and she did the same.

There's still one more place you need to touch to make sure......:D
 
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