"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ADVICE: I have made a lot of girls HATE me over the last 2 years with lessons from SS

JohnChops

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No more keyboard jockeying . Action is the place.
Atom Smasher said:
A relationship must inevitably change over time. You're just taking it a bit too far. Once they catch feelings you have to throw them a bone once in a while (no, not that bone).

I would say that texting other girls is over the line. What you need to do is transition from overt communication to slightly more covert.
Hmmmm what do you mean by more covert?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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old married dude

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I run into the same problem really.

It's just natural I guess for women to want relationships. I certainly don't want to be tied down, so it's tough. Luckily I have a FWB that thinks like a man. :crackup:
 
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