"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JohnChops

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Atom Smasher said:
A relationship must inevitably change over time. You're just taking it a bit too far. Once they catch feelings you have to throw them a bone once in a while (no, not that bone).

I would say that texting other girls is over the line. What you need to do is transition from overt communication to slightly more covert.
Hmmmm what do you mean by more covert?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I run into the same problem really.

It's just natural I guess for women to want relationships. I certainly don't want to be tied down, so it's tough. Luckily I have a FWB that thinks like a man. :crackup:
 
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