"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asianbboy

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i feel like a lot of advice here simply doesn't apply to my high school. idk if there are a lot of nerds or what but its just really weird to be sexual with girls all the time. making a lot of eye contact when ur talking makes girls stop talking. maybe i just need to stop using this advice. when i think about it, there's no real DJs at our school. most of the guys just have 1 long term gf.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Look at the guy you most admire in your school. Observe how he behaves around girls. That will tell you what you need to work on.
 

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That's great that there's no DJ's at your school. You can be the first one!

In school it's tough to be sexual because, well, you're at school. But how about substituting sexual for playful? Try a playful nudge or a booty bump and say "You can't handle my all of this". Try to think "hands-on playful" approach.

As for eye contact, I disagree. Eye contact is amazing if done right. I recommend watching any movie with a good lead actor. Pay attention to his eye contact and notice the difference between his eye contact and the supporting actors. It's more of a focused look and than a creepy one.Observing the cool kid in cool helps too like LearningSlowly said.
 
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