"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i feel like a lot of advice here simply doesn't apply to my high school. idk if there are a lot of nerds or what but its just really weird to be sexual with girls all the time. making a lot of eye contact when ur talking makes girls stop talking. maybe i just need to stop using this advice. when i think about it, there's no real DJs at our school. most of the guys just have 1 long term gf.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look at the guy you most admire in your school. Observe how he behaves around girls. That will tell you what you need to work on.
 
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That's great that there's no DJ's at your school. You can be the first one!

In school it's tough to be sexual because, well, you're at school. But how about substituting sexual for playful? Try a playful nudge or a booty bump and say "You can't handle my all of this". Try to think "hands-on playful" approach.

As for eye contact, I disagree. Eye contact is amazing if done right. I recommend watching any movie with a good lead actor. Pay attention to his eye contact and notice the difference between his eye contact and the supporting actors. It's more of a focused look and than a creepy one.Observing the cool kid in cool helps too like LearningSlowly said.
 
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