Advice from Female "Maneaters"

[Q-Pid]

As documented in this months copy of FHM(UK):

• Be confident. Even if you're not, act it.
• Don't put it on a plate because the chase is half the fun for girls.
• Don't linger around and crowd us. Do the opposite - if I like you and you disappear for a second I'll want to know where you are.
• Never pinch our arses - under any circumstances. It's rubbish.
• Never come out with "Can I come back to yours?" Wait for an invite.
• Wait for that inviting look, or lingering stare. Then you'll know we're interested.
• Come and dance near us, but don't grope. If we dance with you, you're in!
• The Biggest mistake you can make is to not offer a girl a drink.
• Never lie about what you do or say you're single if you're not.
• Be interested. Listen and ask questions about us. That's very sexy.

This is from the mouth of a self-professed female man-eater.

Opinions?

 

[The Juan and only]

I agree with most of those points, however:

"The Biggest mistake you can make is to not offer a girl a drink."

is bullsh1t. You don't want to show a girl that you're willing to buy her attention - don't forget, you are the prize not her and so if anything she should buy you a drink.

I mean, sure its ok to be a polite, chivalrous guy to an extent..but you certainly won't be buying her attention as that sets up the frame that she is more important than you...she is the prize..and you're the one trying to win her (not the other way around as it should be).



p.s I also agree with The_Shezzler about the whole dancing thing

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by Q-Unit
As documented in this months copy of FHM(UK):

• The Biggest mistake you can make is to not offer a girl a drink.
• Never lie about what you do or say you're single if you're not.

This is from the mouth of a self-professed female man-eater.

Opinions?

2 bad points but all others are fine

 

[TheTrimReaper]

Look at the title of this...."Maneaters"

The problem with this article is that it's advice being told to you by maneaters, and what you can do to get acceptance from them. Forget it!!!

Live your life the way YOU want, and if the woman is worth it, she'll be around. I would never want to spend time on a woman who is referred to as a maneater. And I definitely wouldn't want to get her acceptance.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Advice from Female "Maneaters"

Originally posted by Tkman
2 bad points but all others are fine

I'd add

• Wait for that inviting look, or lingering stare. Then you'll know we're interested.

Very AFC. Although it's been written time and time again about waiting for an opening; a sign... What a load... Does it make any sense to wait for her to allow you to approach her? C'mon...

 

[The Juan and only]

ah yes I didn't notice that, Francisco makes a good point..if you want to approach a woman just go for it. looking for subtle signals is a waste of time and will probably damage your chances anyway.

However, that doesn't mean you should ignore everything a woman does - just don't place too much importance on it (unless its really overt).

 

[Derek Flint]

Advice from DF:

"Never take advice on the opposite sex from the opposite sex"

 

[bossdog]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
if you want to approach a woman just go for it. looking for subtle signals is a waste of time and will probably damage your chances anyway.

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I'd add

• Wait for that inviting look, or lingering stare. Then you'll know we're interested.

Very AFC. Although it's been written time and time again about waiting for an opening; a sign... What a load... Does it make any sense to wait for her to allow you to approach her? C'mon...

Please stop giving advice. PM me and ill show u guys why you are wrong here im not trying to flame u guys.

 

[The Juan and only]

Obviously we REALLY disagree on several issues. If you approach a woman who wasn't interested in you in the first place.. what have you lost???? seriously. you don't approach you don't get her. you do approach..there's a chance you can change her mind. DON'T ****ING look for signals. that's narrowing a woman's view of you down to your looks alone...give her the full sample whether she thinks she wants it or not.

you conifidence will shine through

 

[bossdog]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
Obviously we REALLY disagree on several issues. If you approach a woman who wasn't interested in you in the first place.. what have you lost????

Time

seriously. you don't approach you don't get her. you do approach..there's a chance you can change her mind. DON'T ****ING look for signals. that's narrowing a woman's view of you down to your looks alone...give her the full sample whether she thinks she wants it or not.

you conifidence will shine through

You are making the girl the prize. You should be the prize.

There are ways to get girls who initially arent sending to signals but why build a bridge when there's one already built. Which is the same **** ive been fvcking saying all over this board and nobody understands. If the girls u want arent noticing you. change something about yourself. how hard is it really.

Im through

 

[aftershock]

That list is fine if you want an attention *****. She clearly doesn't have standards.

 

[The Juan and only]

"You are making the girl the prize."

No I'm not....but that doesn't mean you shouldn't present what you have, confidence wise.

Sounds like your saying a shouldn't brush my hair or my teeth, and wear a plastic-bag for clothing....

being your best isn't making the woman the prize, not at all.

 

[The Juan and only]

look bossdog, I'm not saying signals are completely unimportant, they're just not something to spend too much time on.

If you're talking to a girl and (from her signals) she obviously doen't like you...walk away. fine


If she's obviously really into you (from her signals) then push it to the next level. fine



but most of the things you need ot know are common sense or gut feeling. you don;t need to spend time LEARNING it...that is bs

 

[bossdog]

Recently i went out and invested in a set of hair clippers. They cost me 50 dollars. I normally get my hair cut every week for 12 dollars.

An idiot will look at me and laugh because i spent 50 dollars this week when i could have just spent 12.

He doesnt see that i will never again waste my time and money going to the barber shop unless i want to.

I made it a point to invest my time into learning signals and body language. so i wouldnt waste my time in the future. As a result i havent gotten rejected in months. But i guess thats just me. peace

 

[The Juan and only]

Well I guess there's no harm in learning it. although I don't know if there's really anything much better than a gut feeling or common sense on these things.

I don't know but I assume you're talking about stuff like:

if her shoulders are pointed at you she likes you.
if she blinks more quickly she likes you.
if she shows open gestures she likes you...blah blah


thinking conciously about those things just seems ridiculus and counter-productive to me. And besides, most of them are taken into consideration by your "gut feeling"..I'm not going to change my ideas about that very easily, so we'll agree to disagree

 

[bossdog]

^^^ You need to have an open mind. Sounds like You have been using gunwitch method.


To Everybody who wants to learn:

check out these sites. Dont be mislead by the word flirting i know it sounds kinda girly.

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting
http://www.webster.edu/depts/artsci/bass/faculty/mm1985.htm
http://www.acmelove.com/flirting/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_attraction
http://www.geocities.com/godfurther/pimpinium/pimposophy.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexual_behavior

Also google flirting alot of good **** will come up. Mostly aimed twoards girls. youll find that girls have this **** down to a science(which it really is). and most of it is non verbal.

Some good books to read are:

How to make Anyone fall in Love with You by Leil Lowndes
The System by Roy Valentine

Also do a search for my posts and Player_Supreme.

Then come back and help the lost cats on this board.

 

[The Juan and only]

I'd say that good body language comes from a strong confident mindset where you aren't concerned with "doing everything right" - "are my shoulders relaxed..erm..are my palms open and facing them..etc"...seems like to much intraverted thinking to me.

saying that I do sometimes use the mirroring technique (copying their movements/voice tone/etc)

but cheers. I will check out the material.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by bossdog
Please stop giving advice. PM me and ill show u guys why you are wrong here im not trying to flame u guys.

Why not continue to try to explain it to the masses? There's nothing wrong with a little debate? Since there's no such thing as eye contact online so I'm giving you permission to engage....

 

[The Juan and only]

^^^^ Yes, that's what I've been saying lol. Don't take her signals too seriosly...but different methods for different people I suppose

 

[bossdog]

Alright i give up. This site is hopeless. I really thought i could help some of you. But you dont wanna be helped. You already think u know everything. No hard feelings. Peace