"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice from DJs: How to pick a Hottie who works a the mall store you shop at?

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El_matador

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I'm looking for tips from Djs that have pulled this off smoothly.
Approach and number close on the hottie that work at the clothing store you shop at.

About 7 weeks ago, I was shopping at this store and this hottie was helping out. I went in there to get a tie and and pants. She seemed nervous when I look into her eyes and get close to her, just asking stupid questions about clothes. She got all flustered at some point...

Anyway, I was going out with some chick at the time, so me being a AFC (working hard to remove that effing disease)... I didn't even make a move to close... especially after I asked her opinion on a cologne, I she said she was single but If she had a boyfriend she would give him said cologne with a big smile... I am an idiot I need to get the spin plates mentality. I am still trying to figure how I ****ed it up with the last girl about 5 weeks ago.

I need to spin plates and never to concentrate on one girl only, that has always been my demise damn it.

any tips from you fellows that do this all the time?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You want tips?

Man the f*ck up and ask her out. You answered the question yourself. The answer to any question you don't ask will always be no.
 
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