"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice from DJs: How to pick a Hottie who works a the mall store you shop at?

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El_matador

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I'm looking for tips from Djs that have pulled this off smoothly.
Approach and number close on the hottie that work at the clothing store you shop at.

About 7 weeks ago, I was shopping at this store and this hottie was helping out. I went in there to get a tie and and pants. She seemed nervous when I look into her eyes and get close to her, just asking stupid questions about clothes. She got all flustered at some point...

Anyway, I was going out with some chick at the time, so me being a AFC (working hard to remove that effing disease)... I didn't even make a move to close... especially after I asked her opinion on a cologne, I she said she was single but If she had a boyfriend she would give him said cologne with a big smile... I am an idiot I need to get the spin plates mentality. I am still trying to figure how I ****ed it up with the last girl about 5 weeks ago.

I need to spin plates and never to concentrate on one girl only, that has always been my demise damn it.

any tips from you fellows that do this all the time?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You want tips?

Man the f*ck up and ask her out. You answered the question yourself. The answer to any question you don't ask will always be no.
 
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