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Are you still up?
Today – 2:18am

Ouaphi75
Kinda. Need to be asleep;)
Today – 2:19am

csi549
I can't sleep...
Thought you have so many admirers that you had to work overtime;-)
Today – 2:20am

Ouaphi75
I'm horny. Woke me up. Having an awesome dream. Now I'm gonna play with a toy. ;)
Today – 2:22am

csi549
I had a date tonight...not horny..I think you need some attention that the internet can't give.
Today – 2:27am

Ouaphi75
I. Would. agree. How was the date?
Today – 2:27am

csi549
Very good 1st date woman about your age married 20 years divorced recently. Meet for coffee I started to get bored. So asked her over to watch TV. Made a move gave her 6 orgasms in a short time. She was ashamed and left. I tried to reasure her. I don't think she had much of a sex life. Very dull vanilla with husband. She said it was best sex she ever had but I don't think she had Ben with a guy who knew what he was doing. I will ask her out again
Today – 2:34am

Ouaphi75
Good for you.
Today – 2:35am

csi549
Yep now if I could get your number. You are very interesting
Today – 2:37am

csi549
I think you know what you are doing...
Today – 2:38am

Ouaphi75
Well, I'm about to *** all over this vibrator then pass out.
Today – 2:40am

Ouaphi75
Phone numbet

Thoughts?
 

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Not much to discuss here. She's very sexual with you and sounds open to banging. Get her number, and as soon as you do, the first time you hit her up should be for a date. No more chatting like this.
Ok will do I have number. I just removed it from post. How long should I wait to set up date? I am very excited. Yes i need to calm down. Plus text something like hey this is bill from ok cupid. I got your number this morning when you couldn't sleep. Do you have some free time this weekend or next week? How long should I wait to text..
 

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Only you know that. Does she seem very horny and eager to fvck (it sounds like she is)? Then wait a day to contact her. If she's not too interested until she meets you, wait 2-3 days.
I will contact her tomorrow. I appreciate your advice. I sent you a pm
 

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Contact her and set up a date. Refrain from any more sex talk until you meet in person. Also I wouldn't advise telling other women details of your other dates. Never tell them directly if they ask, just imply it. They'll use their mind to do the rest.

It comes off like you are trying to impress them by giving details, which puts you in a bad light.
 

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Contact her and set up a date. Refrain from any more sex talk until you meet in person. Also I wouldn't advise telling other women details of your other dates. Never tell them directly if they ask, just imply it. They'll use their mind to do the rest.

It comes off like you are trying to impress them by giving details, which puts you in a bad light.
Ty
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Also I wouldn't advise telling other women details of your other dates. Never tell them directly if they ask, just imply it. They'll use their mind to do the rest.

It comes off like you are trying to impress them by giving details, which puts you in a bad light.
I was gonna say something about this but I think the OP giving TMI about his date here was actually quite clever. Right beforehand she mentioned the sex toy... this basically opened up the conversation to inappropriate talk. His description was in poor taste but I think helped him more than hurt him because it showed her he knows how to get the job done and is desirable by other girls. If she had not steered the conversation in that direction by bringing up the sex toy, I would agree sharing those details would have been a bad move.
 

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I was gonna say something about this but I think the OP giving TMI about his date here was actually quite clever. Right beforehand she mentioned the sex toy... this basically opened up the conversation to inappropriate talk. His description was in poor taste but I think helped him more than hurt him because it showed her he knows how to get the job done and is desirable by other girls. If she had not steered the conversation in that direction by bringing up the sex toy, I would agree sharing those details would have been a bad move.
That is why I did it. She is highly sexual and is looking for someone to meet her needs. I will wear her out. I just need to get a date. Good impression will be all it will take. If all goes well I will be spanking her ass in a half hour. She said she was looking ideally for a relationship but was open to a fb. If I get the chance she will be spent after I get finished with her. The fb might be audition for relatationship. IDC I will f uck her and not get emotionally involved. I have learned a lot on here on how to protect myself. If she suggests a relationship I will cross that bridge a later day. Until then I will continue with plates and improvements. Its really nothing to think about now.
 
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Good advice all round. I d suggest drinks straight away. Ask her what her favorite shot is.She sounds DTF. works long hours perfect f*** buddy.

On her profile she's trying to portray herself as a sophisticated city chick so you can get her rat ass drunk but do it in some up Market Hotel bar.

Try and find a hotel that has rooms and a special going and then you can grab a room and f*** her there. Getting them home sometimes give some time to cool off. And chicks love f****** in hotel rooms I think it makes them feel like bad girls.

Conversation wise you should have a field day with her profile she's into dogs so you can play The Big Dog thing. Make accidental puns on doggie styles. She loves action TV shows so you can get her going with lots of action talk. She pays out a AFCs on her profile so you can build a bit of rapport paying them out too. But escalate bloody fast with this one she's ready to fizz all over some guy s ****.

Good luck man I'm highly jealous haven't come across anything half as good on okc.
 

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Good advice all round. I d suggest drinks straight away. Ask her what her favorite shot is.She sounds DTF. works long hours perfect f*** buddy.

On her profile she's trying to portray herself as a sophisticated city chick so you can get her rat ass drunk but do it in some up Market Hotel bar.

Try and find a hotel that has rooms and a special going and then you can grab a room and f*** her there. Getting them home sometimes give some time to cool off. And chicks love f****** in hotel rooms I think it makes them feel like bad girls.

Conversation wise you should have a field day with her profile she's into dogs so you can play The Big Dog thing. Make accidental puns on doggie styles. She loves action TV shows so you can get her going with lots of action talk. She pays out a AFCs on her profile so you can build a bit of rapport paying them out too. But escalate bloody fast with this one she's ready to fizz all over some guy s ****.

Good luck man I'm highly jealous haven't come across anything half as good on okc.
That is why I am so excited. She is a cut above most on okc. She isn't as pretty as my ex but my ex sucked in the sack. This woman will be raw, unleashed, animalistic sex. I don't drink. How do I get her drunk by not drinking myself? I was planning to do just coffee, make sure to sit beside her, kino, escalate and suggest TV....I am open to all suggestions. I just want to sample her one time and she Likes it well enough that she wants more. All please suggest away...also I had been looking at her profile for a while. I wasn't going to message because I thought she has thousands messaging her and it would be a waste of time. I finally said f uck it. I took action and penned a note. It looks like it may work out. Take action men
Just do it.

She also probably comes from a small town. She is a native like myself. That is why I think that. Since she thinks she is big city should i tease her about being from a small town?
 
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So are you going to ask this chick out or just type about her here?

All the crap about her being from a small town, what she's like, what you're gonna do is NOT taking action. It's typing about maybe taking action. And the guys here typing about what hotel to hire, who she is and what she's like are just on a Fantasy Island with you.

You don't know this chick or if it's even a woman. You've seen an OKC profile and swapped a couple of messages based on it.

The map is not the territory. And you've maybe seen a map.

Let us know when you've walked the terrain.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Texted her got a reply. I answered and waiting on her. I have to improve my mindset. Can't get that done quick enough. How I can get woman and bed them at all is a mystery to me.
 
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Geez TT is your arthritis acting up. For the record I was PMed and asked to comment about the 2 topics I did comment on. Back in the day I've banged 4 girls with the hotel routine. . I never start pointless arguments. I never post any tactics that I haven't personally had work for me at least 3 times and in my field reports I let it all hang out and when I ve screwed up happy for the guys to tear me a new one.

So it's a bit rough being accused of being a KBJ
 

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Geez TT is your arthritis acting up. For the record I was PMed and asked to comment about the 2 topics I did comment on. Back in the day I've banged 4 girls with the hotel routine. . I never start pointless arguments. I never post any tactics that I haven't personally had work for me at least 3 times and in my field reports I let it all hang out and when I ve screwed up happy for the guys to tear me a new one.

So it's a bit rough being accused of being a KBJ
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I am not 'accusing' anyone of anything.

You guys are getting WAY ahead of things. There have been a couple of OKC messages swapped, that's all.

The map is not the territory. In this case, the purported 'map' is some photographs and some typed words. For all anyone knows, this is a dude playing a game. No one here knows if an OKC profile and a couple of messages are anything like who posted them.

Tactics work (or don't) on real women in the real world, not on an OLD site and in your imagination. So planning to 'wear her out' or checking into a hotel are fantasies at this point. Meet the woman. Then figure out the rest.

Why get your panties in a wad? A bit touchy are you?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I am not 'accusing' anyone of anything.

You guys are getting WAY ahead of things. There have been a couple of OKC messages swapped, that's all.

The map is not the territory. In this case, the purported 'map' is some photographs and some typed words. For all anyone knows, this is a dude playing a game. No one here knows if an OKC profile and a couple of messages are anything like who posted them.

Tactics work (or don't) on real women in the real world, not on an OLD site and in your imagination. So planning to 'wear her out' or checking into a hotel are fantasies at this point. Meet the woman. Then figure out the rest.

Why get your panties in a wad? A bit touchy are you?

All very true...Need the date or move on...Tictac is the voice of grumpy reason....I do apprciate all of the advice from everyone
 

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Hmm. Grumpy reason.... I'll take it!

Just call her and set something up. There is nothing to be afraid of and maybe some puzzy to gain!

Good luck DM!
Ty I will call her in a bit. I set up a date with another girl tomorrow. Two dates this week. Tried to set up a date with the woman I seduced in 30 mins. She is still ashamed she did it. Anyway I sent a voice of reason text said we were adults had good time but I think her morals are getting in the way. They didn't get in the way the other night. Anyway said if you change your mind call me. She had led a sheltered life.
 

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Well tried to call and it went right to voice mail. Tried to leave a message but system was screwed up. So I texted for a date. No reply as of yet. I don't think she will. But I might be surprised. She he it might just be in to sexting. Not gonna waste my time on that.
 
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