"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice for virgin, never had girlfriend, in twenties...

Ryan69

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I just live with my mom because it is what I am used to. I have enough money that I could buy a nice house, but I don't really have a reason to

This is 100% BS


What guy in his twenties lives with his mom when he could get a sweet bachelor pad of his own or buy a HOUSE

I lived with my parents when I was in my twenties but I was broke and had a pile of school bills

I don't buy anything this poster is saying. This guy contradicts himself
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ryan69

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I look good; 6' tall, muscular, 10% bodyfat; my face is a "9",

How do you get muscular when you don't do anything and have a tumor ?
 

Dannyrt34

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Magn said:
I feel like she wants my attention, like coming around when only I am outside, and wearing a skin tight shirt with no bra.
Was it you or her wearing the skin tight shirt and no bra?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gherald

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i didn't finish reading..sound to me that your all talk...or maybe this guy is trolling...

dont invlove me in your drama..
 

snowdog

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Magn said:
I already have as much money as I need. I'd consider a job, but I'd feel like an idiot if I had to be a salesman or be waiting on people. I'd rather go to school or something along those lines.
This reply just shows your insecurity. Insecure people need to put others down to make themselves feel good. Just because you have money doesn't make you better then a salesman. A salesman has to bust his ass to get his money. From what i understand, you don't do **** to get yours; and yet you somehow feel like you are a better person then a salesman.

If you are not gonna take probably the best advice in this thread seriously, then why bother posting here?
 

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Your first mistake is thinking she is a ***** for what happened. The problem is you - she was giving you lots of hints and signs that you weren't able to read.

Forget about her and move on to meeting some new people.

Magn said:
I probably do have a bad personality, but I'm trying to improve. Yes, I think she would cry with what I would really like to say to her for being a phony bit©h.
Money isn't the only reason to work. Find some purpose for your life, work, and get your own place.
 

Bussey

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Clearly has to be a troll.

If for some insane reason you're not....

You need to break down your entire personna and rebuild it.

That's all the time I'm wasting on this. Lol.

Sidenote: First time back for nearly 2 years. Hoping the community has improved from what it was then.....
 
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