"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advice for virgin, never had girlfriend, in twenties...

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I just live with my mom because it is what I am used to. I have enough money that I could buy a nice house, but I don't really have a reason to

This is 100% BS


What guy in his twenties lives with his mom when he could get a sweet bachelor pad of his own or buy a HOUSE

I lived with my parents when I was in my twenties but I was broke and had a pile of school bills

I don't buy anything this poster is saying. This guy contradicts himself
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I look good; 6' tall, muscular, 10% bodyfat; my face is a "9",

How do you get muscular when you don't do anything and have a tumor ?
 
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Magn said:
I feel like she wants my attention, like coming around when only I am outside, and wearing a skin tight shirt with no bra.
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Was it you or her wearing the skin tight shirt and no bra?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i didn't finish reading..sound to me that your all talk...or maybe this guy is trolling...

dont invlove me in your drama..
 
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Magn said:
I already have as much money as I need. I'd consider a job, but I'd feel like an idiot if I had to be a salesman or be waiting on people. I'd rather go to school or something along those lines.
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This reply just shows your insecurity. Insecure people need to put others down to make themselves feel good. Just because you have money doesn't make you better then a salesman. A salesman has to bust his ass to get his money. From what i understand, you don't do **** to get yours; and yet you somehow feel like you are a better person then a salesman.

If you are not gonna take probably the best advice in this thread seriously, then why bother posting here?
 
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Your first mistake is thinking she is a ***** for what happened. The problem is you - she was giving you lots of hints and signs that you weren't able to read.

Forget about her and move on to meeting some new people.

Magn said:
I probably do have a bad personality, but I'm trying to improve. Yes, I think she would cry with what I would really like to say to her for being a phony bit©h.
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Money isn't the only reason to work. Find some purpose for your life, work, and get your own place.
 
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Clearly has to be a troll.

If for some insane reason you're not....

You need to break down your entire personna and rebuild it.

That's all the time I'm wasting on this. Lol.

Sidenote: First time back for nearly 2 years. Hoping the community has improved from what it was then.....
 
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