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I work in sales/customer service, I also hand out political propaganda to strangers, so I have no trouble at all with talking to people. However, my situation is very different at the club scene. I am not uncomfortable there, in fact, I enjoy being at a club with a party-like atmosphere, but I have this psychological block to being able to do the things I want to do, like dancing with the ladies. Do you folks have any recommendation for getting over that fear? Is there any secrete that I should know before I try anything? One thing I can think of is going more often and simply trying, even though I do not know what I am really doing. I would like to note, that I go to night clubs by myself.
 
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I made myself in night clubs. For over 20 years I have hunted within this environment. In fact here is a exert from my upcoming book on how to get laid in a nigh club that includes a series of dance videos:

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As you may know from what I teach in my style of game on my website at http://*********** I tell my players to look for eye contact.

I have found that if a female is digging you she will return eye contact with you. So when you first enter the club you have to be on your A game. That means I want you to walk in and open your eyes. Look around at every girl in the room that you can see and look them in the eyes as you walk by.

Your goal is to walk through the whole joint as if your the crowned prince arriving and announcing his presence. As you walk look them in the eye. Look for a return of eye contact of two seconds or more. So if you catch her eye try to hold it as your walking slowly through the club.

Every club has a circuit that you can walk. So walk the entire circuit of the club as if your going in a big circle. Do not hide the fact that your looking for a woman.

A lot of guys blow this when the walk into a club. They usually come in a gaggle of guys for emotional support called wingmen. I say this is a big mistake for a serious player. As I learned from a woman whom I had on one of my conference calls at my site you reduce your energy when you are with a bunch of guys. Women cannot see or feel you the proper way.

I stopped going out with wingmen because I found that on nights that I went out alone I did better at catching women. I was more focused on finding a mate for the night instead of standing there talking to other dudes and drinking with them. I became a man if singular focus.

My energy was primed and on fire and it made women notice me more by walking in alone and just being alone. They knew what I was there for and guess what? That is what many of them are there for also.

If you think women enjoy going home alone then your more deluded than a a watered down drink that you buy up in those night clubs.

Quite a few women do go to the clubs subconsciously hoping to meet Mr. Right. I make sure that I present myself as that person.

Even though women could tell I was a player either by the way I walked or dressed, they still lined up to get fu*cked by me. Women in general without realizing it have these massive egos that make them feel good if they can meet a player and change him. They always want to change you and get you to choose them as some kind of major conquest to their little egos.

So do not be afraid to walk through a club like a real player making eye contact with women as you walk by. Hold that eye contact and if she returns it as your walking make a note of her for later.

You want to finish your circuit then I like to step over to the bar and order a coke. I do not believe in drinking while on the job. Many of you guys feel that you need that liquid courage to get the balls up to just step over and take that woman to the dance floor. I say nay. Do not rely on that for your manhood. It will leak out your game. Plus there is nothing worse than a sloppy drunk fool in the clubs.



Now here is the secret of eye contact. If she likes you she will return that eye contact with you. If she returns it then she will fu*ck you if what you say when you open your mouth sounds and feels good to her.
 
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Women will look at a man they like. Even shy girls will glance over, you just have to be alert and awake in life enough to catch them. This is one of the reasons why I say take the red pill and wake up.

Many people go through life asleep and they do not even know it. How many of you can recall details of your drive to work the day before as you are reading my words right now? Do you remember the lady in the blue car? They child playing down the street as you drove by? What color of pants was the girl at the coffee counter wearing?

Get my point?

Wake up and pay attention to what is going on around you. One of my pet peeves is when guys ask me where can they meet a woman. If they would open their eyes they would see women all around them every day.

Here is another secret that you will have to learn and accept if you want to be successful in the game.

Women do the choosing.

Yes I know it hurts. You have been told that us men are the chooser and all we gotta do is go up and pick her off the vine of women standing at the bar and take her home.

Not!

Sorry Charley you cannot fish that way.

Ultimately women do the choosing. How? They select whom they will let between their legs. I dont care if you think your magic NLP lines are gonna make her open her legs or you look like a greek god, she still chooses whether or not she will like you.

Hypnosis on women in the night clubs I have found doesn't work. I know this blows up half of the game that is being offered in the online seduction

community. Look at the logistics of it.

You have been told by these so called experts to yell hypnotic stories at her and she will open her legs for you.

Again ...NOT! With a big fat HELL NO STUPID added to it.

For one thing how can a woman hear you over that loud assed music?

Ok now that I have kind of women you up to the reality of the game let me continue lacing you up with real game advice from a real soldier of the game.

If a woman likes what you have to say to her or how you act or feel once you step over then she will choose you. That means when it comes time to say “let's hook up.” she will be more agreeable to ****ing you either that night or at a later time.

So when women are choosing they will let you know by the strongest and oldest means known to mankind. This method had been around since the beginning of man. Your father and mother probably used it. I have used it to score with tons of women.

It's all about eye contact. If she likes what she sees she will return eye contact.

I am not about playing a numbers game. I consider it a waste of energy to blast into a club and ho chase down every female in there without her invitation to the dance in some way or another.

In a perfect world us men would have our pick of the women and all we would have to do was go up to them and tell them to bend over or chase them down the streets and say some magic lines in their ears and they would bend over. But we don't live in a perfect world do we.

The girls that will wanna bone you are the ones who will be looking at you.
 
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another exert:

How to dominate a woman on the dance floor.

Most guys who dance with women these days are afraid to touch them. You cannot control her if you do not touch her. When I go out to a night club all too often I see people dancing far apart from each other these days unless they are trying to get their freak on.

You don't have to freak a girl just to touch her. Freaking is when she will back her ass up to your crotch and you do the humping on the dance floor thing. Girls who do this all the time trying to get guys all riled up like choir boys do not turn me on. It is a game to them so why should I be their sucker chump.

Another version of freaking is done to the front crotch to crotch and again most men out there cannot handle this type of contact. They end up with woodies. Then you have given away way too much information to the girl. If your too small she will laugh at you. If your too big you will scare her away unless she is into ripping pain. Basically if you allow your **** to get hard while freaking a girl you lose and she wins. She has won control over your body because you were not man enough to keep your **** handled like a real man.

Beware some girls get off on that. That is all they need is the belief that you desire them so they get their kudos on and can go home feeling attractive without giving up the goods. I have seen this type in the clubs using chumps left and right and most poor slobs have no idea they have been played. These idiots will fall in love with her right there on the floor and start tricking out for her with the buying of drinks and wasting their time on them.

Are you like this? I hope not after reading my words.

Control over a woman on the floor comes from the usage of your hands. I don't care if you have skinny claws or short little bear paws, you must use your hands as your tool to test and control her.

I say test because you want to test her for her submissiveness. Hopefully your not one of those fem boys who are looking for big bad dyke type women to beat your butts. I am assuming your the average joe blow out there who wants a soft feminine woman. If that is the case then yes you want to make sure she isn't some kind of closet ninja man hater.

What I do to test a woman for her submission to my control on the floor is put a hand on her trap area which is the bottom of her neck. The triangle shaped meat that slopes down to her shoulders.

I will then try to gently move her to my rhythm. If I am doing a soft side to side hip movement then I will try to see if she submits and goes alone with the way I am dancing versus her own style.

If she is open to control from my hand then I will escalate it further. See Video # 10
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The fella above who posted has a good post on night club gaming also. I recall it was full of good advice like my book and DJDan's book has info on dress and how to look good in a club.

In fact Included a excert from Dan's book or Metaphysical's book in my own book or manual actually.
 
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