"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First of All, i'd like to thank the creators of this website for what they have done for me; i've went from not being able to look a girl in the eye to being able to do cold approach no problem (about 75 percent success rate in getting a flirty conversation)

However, i'd like to ask some senior veterans here what
i should do next to improve my game. In other words, how else could i improve?

So far i can:

Get an opener in almost any situation
Do All the basics (C&F etc.)
Number closes (dunno never actually been denied a number yet)


I still haven't done

kiss closes
you know what else ;)

And am not that good at
picking her up if shes working

Any advice on those please would be greatly appreciated

Thank you
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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although i understand this may not be the most interesting topic of discussion, any help would receive sincere appreciation. Thank you
 
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Take it easy, don't be to pushy - you will intimedate poor girl.
 
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creators of the website? how about thanking the faceless dozens that have given good advice too.

balance being shy/aggressive.

girls don't like shy guys cause they are seen as weak.
girls don't like aggressive guys cause they are seen as promiscious.

balance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Number closes (dunno never actually been denied a number yet)
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It sounds like you're doing a lot better than some of the SS experts on here.

The kiss and the rest will come once you get them on a date. Picking up girls while they are working is going to be difficult for anyone.

So here's my advice: keep doing what you're doing!! :)
 
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DJ_D.
Thanks for reminding me. My humble apologizes.....when i mentioned the creator, i was actually referring to everyone here on the website. Guess that didn't come across as such.
 
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Well, to clear one thing up..........I'm not really that shy anymore and can now carry an interesting conversation without difficulty.

As for the one who asked about being more specific on "when she's working", i mean just if she's say on the job and you want to make it clear that you just aren't a customer (kk may not be the best way to put it but i hope you understand)

Anyways thanks for the advice.......dunno where i would be without you guys (lol........before this site, i've blown more than 50 opportunities where the girl's interest was REALLY high (including two potential supermodesl).........but i was so clueless at the time
(lol and im not that old)
 
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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
creators of the website? how about thanking the faceless dozens that have given good advice too.

balance being shy/aggressive.

girls don't like shy guys cause they are seen as weak.
girls don't like aggressive guys cause they are seen as promiscious.

balance.
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DAMN! that is super advice!! so true..and I only realise now !!!
good stuff DJ_Dork!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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