"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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someperson12

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First of All, i'd like to thank the creators of this website for what they have done for me; i've went from not being able to look a girl in the eye to being able to do cold approach no problem (about 75 percent success rate in getting a flirty conversation)

However, i'd like to ask some senior veterans here what
i should do next to improve my game. In other words, how else could i improve?

So far i can:

Get an opener in almost any situation
Do All the basics (C&F etc.)
Number closes (dunno never actually been denied a number yet)


I still haven't done

kiss closes
you know what else ;)

And am not that good at
picking her up if shes working

Any advice on those please would be greatly appreciated

Thank you
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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someperson12

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although i understand this may not be the most interesting topic of discussion, any help would receive sincere appreciation. Thank you
 

Miliaris

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Take it easy, don't be to pushy - you will intimedate poor girl.
 

DJ_Dork

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creators of the website? how about thanking the faceless dozens that have given good advice too.

balance being shy/aggressive.

girls don't like shy guys cause they are seen as weak.
girls don't like aggressive guys cause they are seen as promiscious.

balance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dirtheart

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Number closes (dunno never actually been denied a number yet)
It sounds like you're doing a lot better than some of the SS experts on here.

The kiss and the rest will come once you get them on a date. Picking up girls while they are working is going to be difficult for anyone.

So here's my advice: keep doing what you're doing!! :)
 

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DJ_D.
Thanks for reminding me. My humble apologizes.....when i mentioned the creator, i was actually referring to everyone here on the website. Guess that didn't come across as such.
 

someperson12

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Well, to clear one thing up..........I'm not really that shy anymore and can now carry an interesting conversation without difficulty.

As for the one who asked about being more specific on "when she's working", i mean just if she's say on the job and you want to make it clear that you just aren't a customer (kk may not be the best way to put it but i hope you understand)

Anyways thanks for the advice.......dunno where i would be without you guys (lol........before this site, i've blown more than 50 opportunities where the girl's interest was REALLY high (including two potential supermodesl).........but i was so clueless at the time
(lol and im not that old)
 

chicksrock

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
creators of the website? how about thanking the faceless dozens that have given good advice too.

balance being shy/aggressive.

girls don't like shy guys cause they are seen as weak.
girls don't like aggressive guys cause they are seen as promiscious.

balance.
DAMN! that is super advice!! so true..and I only realise now !!!
good stuff DJ_Dork!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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