“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Advice for hitting on a chick i've known for a while

jay219

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I'm still kind of new to the DJ way of thinking so im hoping people can help me out. This is my second plate so far.

Ive known this chick for a while through mutual friends and her sister (who now lives overseas). She text me outta the blue asking how i was so i suggested meeting for a drink. We went and i felt a definite chemistry and some sexual jokes/inuendos (though she makes a lot of those anyway). When i dopped her off she suggested doing it again sometime and said she had a good night.

So i want to call her and arrange another meet but want to make sure it comes across as a date because i dont want to end up in the friendzone or just someone to talk to (as i would have done in previous years). Reason im concerned is she doesnt have a lot of friends and i dont want to fill that role.

Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuave666

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jay219 said:
Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

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Kiss Close. At least. She'll know your intentions right then and you will either move forward in your 'dating' relationship with her or she will place you in the FZ. Either way it's better than you putting yourself in the FZ unknowingly.
 
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