"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Advice for hitting on a chick i've known for a while

jay219

New Member
Joined
Jul 26, 2012
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
I'm still kind of new to the DJ way of thinking so im hoping people can help me out. This is my second plate so far.

Ive known this chick for a while through mutual friends and her sister (who now lives overseas). She text me outta the blue asking how i was so i suggested meeting for a drink. We went and i felt a definite chemistry and some sexual jokes/inuendos (though she makes a lot of those anyway). When i dopped her off she suggested doing it again sometime and said she had a good night.

So i want to call her and arrange another meet but want to make sure it comes across as a date because i dont want to end up in the friendzone or just someone to talk to (as i would have done in previous years). Reason im concerned is she doesnt have a lot of friends and i dont want to fill that role.

Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

SoSuave666

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2012
Messages
1,122
Reaction score
874
jay219 said:
Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

Cheers
Kiss Close. At least. She'll know your intentions right then and you will either move forward in your 'dating' relationship with her or she will place you in the FZ. Either way it's better than you putting yourself in the FZ unknowingly.
 
Top