"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice for hitting on a chick i've known for a while

jay219

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I'm still kind of new to the DJ way of thinking so im hoping people can help me out. This is my second plate so far.

Ive known this chick for a while through mutual friends and her sister (who now lives overseas). She text me outta the blue asking how i was so i suggested meeting for a drink. We went and i felt a definite chemistry and some sexual jokes/inuendos (though she makes a lot of those anyway). When i dopped her off she suggested doing it again sometime and said she had a good night.

So i want to call her and arrange another meet but want to make sure it comes across as a date because i dont want to end up in the friendzone or just someone to talk to (as i would have done in previous years). Reason im concerned is she doesnt have a lot of friends and i dont want to fill that role.

Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SoSuave666

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jay219 said:
Any advice on how to make it clear im interested and not have it fizzle out to LJBF

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Kiss Close. At least. She'll know your intentions right then and you will either move forward in your 'dating' relationship with her or she will place you in the FZ. Either way it's better than you putting yourself in the FZ unknowingly.
 
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