"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice for handling attention seekers?

Krassus

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What advice can you guys give me for handling beautiful girls who are somewhat attention seekers? The kind that get a half-dozen compliments a day and are constantly surrounded by a swarm of AFCs? So far, i've been 'rationing' my attention and giving it to them as a reward. That and refraining from complimenting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't give them attention! Have a "I don't care" attitude - but in a good way! Just make your presence known whe you are around them!
 

Hot Ice

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Be a selfish and mean asshóle.
Don't give them attention.

Make them jealous.

Make sure that SHE may lose YOU, not the other way around.

Do NOT give her compliments.
ONLY neg-hits. (sarcastic compliments, not insults.)

Treat them like Sh!t:


And they'll love you for that!
 
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