"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice for handling attention seekers?

Krassus

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What advice can you guys give me for handling beautiful girls who are somewhat attention seekers? The kind that get a half-dozen compliments a day and are constantly surrounded by a swarm of AFCs? So far, i've been 'rationing' my attention and giving it to them as a reward. That and refraining from complimenting.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't give them attention! Have a "I don't care" attitude - but in a good way! Just make your presence known whe you are around them!
 

Hot Ice

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Be a selfish and mean asshóle.
Don't give them attention.

Make them jealous.

Make sure that SHE may lose YOU, not the other way around.

Do NOT give her compliments.
ONLY neg-hits. (sarcastic compliments, not insults.)

Treat them like Sh!t:


And they'll love you for that!
 
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