"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok guys, I have been visiting these forums on and off for the last year or so, but now I need your help on getting a chick.

Situation was, I managed to get a chick from her boyfriend and we had been doing stuff for the last few months. I finally get the courage to ask her out, but said lets do it after the 2 week break we have so its not a boring start to us being official.
Looking back on it, it was a stupid move.

Anyway during this break she met an old heartthrob and she says he just has that X factor.

This is, I have really started to like this girl, and want her back. She knows I liker her but has asked for me to not pull any moves on her because she is genuinely interested in this other guy.

Please, I know I was stupid, so can I get some constructive help?
Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The best advice has already been given. AT BEST she's IMAGINING THE OTHER GUY and she's subtly trying to tell you that she's NOT attracted to you because you DO NOT have the "x" factor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well, I saw her again today. And although this guy isnt imaginary, he does live an hour and a half away.

She still does things that indicates that she likes me.
I just dont know the coarse of action to take, to give her effection so that she sees that its all coming from me and not him, or to not give her effection as to make her realise that he cant give her much at that distance
 
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She knows I liker her but has asked for me to not pull any moves on her because she is genuinely interested in this other guy.
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You're in the friend zone, and getting out is next to impossible. She's got wet panties for another dude, but she's dry as stale bread when she's around you.

Francisco gave you one worded advice.... NEXT. Forget about this girl and move on to the next one.
 
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