"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey, so I'm a 17 year old girl and I stumbled across this website and it really makes a lot of sense to me. Recently, I've noticed that girls love jerks, it's like the meaner they are, the more girls like them. It's just sad because some of these girls have no idea that they're just being used. They are merely objects of pleasure...I don't want to reduce myself to some toy that can get used and thrown out. But I have increasingly found myself attracted to this guy, he's not a complete jerk but he has that arrogant/bad*ss vibe going on. I really disliked him at first. But how does a girl know when she's getting played?
Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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At your age, I seriously doubt you'll find anything of substantial worth in a relationship. Honestly most guys at that age aren't going to "use" you. If it works it works. If not, move on. You're a girl. I'm sure there are other guys.
 
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Boys rarely play girls. You'll usually get them if you show attraction towards them and give them opportunities to return it (and making a move). Sometimes you have to grab their balls and pull them out of their mangina.
Or this could be some high-value dude that's got all the girls going for him.

Hey, it really comes down to if you're hot or not. Just sayin'
PM me a pic for a better assessment ;)
And read my journal for awesome insights.
And girls dont like jerks; just some of the characteristics they express.

You should use this knowledge on this site to gain a greater understanding of social interactions. You can also use it to improve your life.

Cool to have a girl around, welcome.
 
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Dammit Norweigian, you beat us to the punch! :p
 
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learninlivin said:
Hey, so I'm a 17 year old girl and I stumbled across this website and it really makes a lot of sense to me. Recently, I've noticed that girls love jerks, it's like the meaner they are, the more girls like them. It's just sad because some of these girls have no idea that they're just being used. They are merely objects of pleasure...I don't want to reduce myself to some toy that can get used and thrown out. But I have increasingly found myself attracted to this guy, he's not a complete jerk but he has that arrogant/bad*ss vibe going on. I really disliked him at first. But how does a girl know when she's getting played?
Any advice would be appreciated.
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I'd hate to say it, but it Norwegian is right, are you hot or not? Most likely you're alright looking. If you are, then you're good to go.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks boys, I appreciate it. No I'm not totally ugly but I guess I'm "cute". I just try to do my best with what I have. But thanks, I appreciate it.
 
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If you are a US lady, you are jailbait for every guy on this forum. Just chatting with your or emailing you can easily lead to a prison sentence for him, because of your age. Beware, guys, the Feds actually run "bait girls", some agent (might even be a man) is trying to lock you up as a child molester! ANY time that some girl ADMITS online (or any other way) that she is under age 18, you'd better RUN away from her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lateluvr said:
If you are a US lady, you are jailbait for every guy on this forum. Just chatting with your or emailing you can easily lead to a prison sentence for him, because of your age. Beware, guys, the Feds actually run "bait girls", some agent (might even be a man) is trying to lock you up as a child molester! ANY time that some girl ADMITS online (or any other way) that she is under age 18, you'd better RUN away from her.
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Unless you're under 18 yourself.
 
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Geez, chill out lateluvr. This is the high school forum so people on here are in high school...meaning 18 and under. I just like the social tips/ideas and learning about social dynamics. Why would feds want to be on this board? This makes no sense.
 
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maybe because they're not getting laid? :D
 
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