"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey, so I'm a 17 year old girl and I stumbled across this website and it really makes a lot of sense to me. Recently, I've noticed that girls love jerks, it's like the meaner they are, the more girls like them. It's just sad because some of these girls have no idea that they're just being used. They are merely objects of pleasure...I don't want to reduce myself to some toy that can get used and thrown out. But I have increasingly found myself attracted to this guy, he's not a complete jerk but he has that arrogant/bad*ss vibe going on. I really disliked him at first. But how does a girl know when she's getting played?
Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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At your age, I seriously doubt you'll find anything of substantial worth in a relationship. Honestly most guys at that age aren't going to "use" you. If it works it works. If not, move on. You're a girl. I'm sure there are other guys.
 
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Boys rarely play girls. You'll usually get them if you show attraction towards them and give them opportunities to return it (and making a move). Sometimes you have to grab their balls and pull them out of their mangina.
Or this could be some high-value dude that's got all the girls going for him.

Hey, it really comes down to if you're hot or not. Just sayin'
PM me a pic for a better assessment ;)
And read my journal for awesome insights.
And girls dont like jerks; just some of the characteristics they express.

You should use this knowledge on this site to gain a greater understanding of social interactions. You can also use it to improve your life.

Cool to have a girl around, welcome.
 
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Dammit Norweigian, you beat us to the punch! :p
 
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learninlivin said:
Hey, so I'm a 17 year old girl and I stumbled across this website and it really makes a lot of sense to me. Recently, I've noticed that girls love jerks, it's like the meaner they are, the more girls like them. It's just sad because some of these girls have no idea that they're just being used. They are merely objects of pleasure...I don't want to reduce myself to some toy that can get used and thrown out. But I have increasingly found myself attracted to this guy, he's not a complete jerk but he has that arrogant/bad*ss vibe going on. I really disliked him at first. But how does a girl know when she's getting played?
Any advice would be appreciated.
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I'd hate to say it, but it Norwegian is right, are you hot or not? Most likely you're alright looking. If you are, then you're good to go.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks boys, I appreciate it. No I'm not totally ugly but I guess I'm "cute". I just try to do my best with what I have. But thanks, I appreciate it.
 
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If you are a US lady, you are jailbait for every guy on this forum. Just chatting with your or emailing you can easily lead to a prison sentence for him, because of your age. Beware, guys, the Feds actually run "bait girls", some agent (might even be a man) is trying to lock you up as a child molester! ANY time that some girl ADMITS online (or any other way) that she is under age 18, you'd better RUN away from her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lateluvr said:
If you are a US lady, you are jailbait for every guy on this forum. Just chatting with your or emailing you can easily lead to a prison sentence for him, because of your age. Beware, guys, the Feds actually run "bait girls", some agent (might even be a man) is trying to lock you up as a child molester! ANY time that some girl ADMITS online (or any other way) that she is under age 18, you'd better RUN away from her.
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Unless you're under 18 yourself.
 
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Geez, chill out lateluvr. This is the high school forum so people on here are in high school...meaning 18 and under. I just like the social tips/ideas and learning about social dynamics. Why would feds want to be on this board? This makes no sense.
 
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maybe because they're not getting laid? :D
 
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