Advice for a fat guy - when to start approaching after losing weight?

[Narhwal]

Hi,

I'm a fat guy - but I've lost 70 pounds in the past 6 months and am down to 220 from 290 (6'0" tall).

Is it too early for me to start trying to develop game and approach women? I think I could lose at least 40 more pounds if I really kept with my program.

I haven't had sex in 5 years except once with a prostitute 2 years ago (in a foreign country so it was kind of a unique situation) and I feel like I'm wasting my life away.

I don't think I have the personality to ever be a player, I just want to find a wife and start a family since I'm 30. My issue is that if I waited maybe the quality of woman I could attract would increase significantly? I would expect to be shot down 99% of the time if I tried right now.

Thanks in advance on your decision - wait or start now?

 

[Jitterbug]

Approaching will burn some more calories and possibly raise testosterone which will help you with further fat loss.

 

[Partizan]

Quick test. If you can look down and see your ****, it's safe to start approaching.

 

[Atom Smasher]

My advice would be to just get into conversational practice with women (and men, too) in your day-to-day, without any outcome-dependence whatsoever.

When you sharpen a knife against a stone, you expect nothing but a sharpened knife. Later the knife will do its cutting having been honed with precision.

 

[Kailex]

The better question is: Why would you wait?

Being 230 didn't stop me, even before I was considering slimming down to 156.

 

[dangdang]

Link narwhal?